no charging icon is what i meant
Let it sit on the charger for a few hours. ADB might be failing because you have no charge. Also, you won't be able fastboot if you're not charged. I would also look at getting the factory cable/adapter from TeamBlackHat. I ordered one and it got to me in about 3 days. If we can't get past this, you might need that adapter on hand.
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