heart broken
#21
Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:31 PM
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#22
Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:37 PM
Maybe this will help our government realize that we need to stop spending billions to fight other peoples wars & invest in the protection & security of our future.
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Yes and no, we learned a lot from gorilla warfare.. I just don't think no matter however you cut it, this person was sick and had a mission.. I am not sure anyone can be prepared for something so horrible. This is just a sick and very sad situation..
#23
Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:45 PM
#24
Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:56 PM
Sorry, this is just so sad, I will be honest here, I can't really comment on this much more at all. It's very upsetting to me.. I am at a loss for words, my heart is very much broken on this..
Mine as well..... i have looked at the pics of the children (that have been released) and i look at my children and begin to weep (again) as i think "that could have been my children"....... this will take US a long time to recover......
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#25
Posted 15 December 2012 - 09:36 PM
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#26
Posted 16 December 2012 - 09:24 AM
Agreed.Maybe this will help our government realize that we need to stop spending billions to fight other peoples wars & invest in the protection & security of our future.
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Posted 16 December 2012 - 09:28 AM
#28
Posted 16 December 2012 - 09:47 AM
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#29
Posted 16 December 2012 - 09:54 AM
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#30
Posted 17 December 2012 - 02:20 PM
The problem here is that there is evil out there. No matter what name you want to call it by, it exists, and there is no reasonable way to obliterate it or even know when it will strike next.
As far as arming the teachers and school staff goes, if the adult faculty and staff were properly trained, psychologically evaluated and registered to carry a firearm, I would much prefer my child attend that school over one with no defensive ability at all. For those that say ""what if one of the teachers loses it and goes crazy shooting up his/her class", I say "what's stopping them from doing that now!". I'll tell you what's stopping them, they are law abiding, sane people. Besides, if there are others armed in the school and they know that, I think they would be far less likely to lose control and do something stupid.
We all have our opinions.
#31
Posted 20 December 2012 - 02:31 AM
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#32
Posted 20 December 2012 - 04:00 AM
we have the same thing going on here in VA, Friday has a lot of threats so far scary stuffThe principal from my daughter's high school called last night....apparently someone has threatened to bring a gun to her school with the same sort of agenda.
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#33
Posted 20 December 2012 - 07:46 AM
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#34
Posted 08 January 2013 - 05:35 PM
Thank God!
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#35
Posted 09 January 2013 - 05:34 AM
Bad parenting. Bad media. Information overload In that order.
Bad parenting - this can be caused not b/c the parents are negligent, but simply b/c we live in a world of double mortgages, child-rearing and extracurricular activity expenses, and an eroding middle class that forces the nuclear family unit to be composed of dual-income providers. How does this contribute?
Children are allowed more free time with peers / television / games / consoles / etc. and less time with books / learning / education. You think it's OK for violence to be manifesting in all of the media, even to kids as young an age as 5? Think again.
I, myself, am an avid gamer - mostly racing sims, but I enjoy the occasional FPS as well. I particularly enjoy playing Mass Effect 3 multiplayer. I cannot count the number of times that I have played that game, or played other FPS (particularly combat games with team v team play) where I have heard a CHILD's voice over the speakers / headphones. I can't count the number of times I've heard a CHILDs voice curse, get pissed off b/c of a sneaky kill / spawn camping / a damned good sniper, and watch him go ballistic trying to reach that guy in a rage to "take him out".
You want the kids to stop being violent? Stop letting them have access to violent media.
Now, some of the bad parenting comes from bad parents. That bad parenting is caused by ADULTS who don't know how to $@$%^@$& act like adults. ant kids to be better model citizens? Make their $&@$^&@ parents be better model citizens.
The next point is the bad media. This comes in many forms - explicit violence in prime time television shows, verbal abuse in children's shows, violence in books, magazines, movies, you name it. Violence is everywhere - and the media is pushing it b/c WE THE PEOPLE want to see it. Every day. Every hour. In our shows, flicks, games, even in our sports. I'm from GA, and I was amused (and horrified) to hear a "die-hard" UGA fan proceed to tell me that UF fans are the worst fans - complete with cursing, hatred and desire to do bodily harm. Seriously? Yeah, its that ***EXACT*** desire to do bodily harm to someone else that is making some UF fan out there tell someone else in the state of Florida that "UGA fans are the worst fans ever" complete with cursing and a desire to .... yep, you guessed it - do bodily harm.
Again, when you're a ^&#^&#^& ADULT, behave like an adult. If you don't know how, then @%$^@$%^$ learn.
Information overload comes b/c our kids have more access to more information with less effort than they ever had before. With mor ways to access info, they also have more access to all the stuff that the bad media is pressing into the viewers' households. Want to really see what the kids ware watching on their fancy iPhones and Android phones? You probably don't - or, you've probably already seen it and never once stopped to consider whether what you just watched would be considered appropriate for someone under the age of 17.
We have no control over crazy people who do crazy things. We *DO* have a control on how the kids act when they are kids - and its time we started taking that control back.
The problem is not public schools, solely, although there is a contributory factor - a lot of kids shows purport that whole "clique" mentality that starts people down dark paths when they are not the "in-crowd" members. The problem is that the kids are not prepared b/c there is a severe lack of parenting - there is a breakdown b/c, unlike 100 years ago, grandma and grandpa aren't upstairs or next door or down the street to provide sage advice to parents who, being human, still mess things up as parents. Grandma and Gramps are now hundreds of miles, thousands of miles away, so the family is now down to Mom and Pops and siblings, making the family unit ever smaller, and with dual income families, even more absentee.
It only gets worse from here.
Now, many of you are going to argue with me about the games, or the media, or the parenting, whatever. This is my opinion, but I feel justified in expressing it - b/c, again, IMO it all starts at the home.
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#36
Posted 09 January 2013 - 09:05 AM
Well thought-out & presented. It really is a societal issue that stems from parental responsibility. And I'm offering that from the perspective of having 3 teenage sons. My wife and I made the decision early-on to fore-go certain expenses in order to buck the trend & I gotta say it pays off. If you do your hard parenting early, you won't have to later on.Want to know what the hell is wrong with the kids today?
Bad parenting. Bad media. Information overload In that order.
Bad parenting - this can be caused not b/c the parents are negligent, but simply b/c we live in a world of double mortgages, child-rearing and extracurricular activity expenses, and an eroding middle class that forces the nuclear family unit to be composed of dual-income providers. How does this contribute?
Children are allowed more free time with peers / television / games / consoles / etc. and less time with books / learning / education. You think it's OK for violence to be manifesting in all of the media, even to kids as young an age as 5? Think again.
I, myself, am an avid gamer - mostly racing sims, but I enjoy the occasional FPS as well. I particularly enjoy playing Mass Effect 3 multiplayer. I cannot count the number of times that I have played that game, or played other FPS (particularly combat games with team v team play) where I have heard a CHILD's voice over the speakers / headphones. I can't count the number of times I've heard a CHILDs voice curse, get pissed off b/c of a sneaky kill / spawn camping / a damned good sniper, and watch him go ballistic trying to reach that guy in a rage to "take him out".
You want the kids to stop being violent? Stop letting them have access to violent media.
Now, some of the bad parenting comes from bad parents. That bad parenting is caused by ADULTS who don't know how to $@$%^@$& act like adults. ant kids to be better model citizens? Make their $&@$^&@ parents be better model citizens.
The next point is the bad media. This comes in many forms - explicit violence in prime time television shows, verbal abuse in children's shows, violence in books, magazines, movies, you name it. Violence is everywhere - and the media is pushing it b/c WE THE PEOPLE want to see it. Every day. Every hour. In our shows, flicks, games, even in our sports. I'm from GA, and I was amused (and horrified) to hear a "die-hard" UGA fan proceed to tell me that UF fans are the worst fans - complete with cursing, hatred and desire to do bodily harm. Seriously? Yeah, its that ***EXACT*** desire to do bodily harm to someone else that is making some UF fan out there tell someone else in the state of Florida that "UGA fans are the worst fans ever" complete with cursing and a desire to .... yep, you guessed it - do bodily harm.
Again, when you're a ^&#^&#^& ADULT, behave like an adult. If you don't know how, then @%$^@$%^$ learn.
Information overload comes b/c our kids have more access to more information with less effort than they ever had before. With mor ways to access info, they also have more access to all the stuff that the bad media is pressing into the viewers' households. Want to really see what the kids ware watching on their fancy iPhones and Android phones? You probably don't - or, you've probably already seen it and never once stopped to consider whether what you just watched would be considered appropriate for someone under the age of 17.
We have no control over crazy people who do crazy things. We *DO* have a control on how the kids act when they are kids - and its time we started taking that control back.
The problem is not public schools, solely, although there is a contributory factor - a lot of kids shows purport that whole "clique" mentality that starts people down dark paths when they are not the "in-crowd" members. The problem is that the kids are not prepared b/c there is a severe lack of parenting - there is a breakdown b/c, unlike 100 years ago, grandma and grandpa aren't upstairs or next door or down the street to provide sage advice to parents who, being human, still mess things up as parents. Grandma and Gramps are now hundreds of miles, thousands of miles away, so the family is now down to Mom and Pops and siblings, making the family unit ever smaller, and with dual income families, even more absentee.
It only gets worse from here.
Now, many of you are going to argue with me about the games, or the media, or the parenting, whatever. This is my opinion, but I feel justified in expressing it - b/c, again, IMO it all starts at the home.
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#37
Posted 09 January 2013 - 09:48 AM
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#38
Posted 09 January 2013 - 09:59 AM
Would you believe that I'm single, never married, and have no kids? (Here it comes....lol)
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Well john....just because you don't have children , means nothing .... you are still a human being, so you are not excluded from feeling the effects of this atrocity..... or having an opinion on it....
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#39
Posted 09 January 2013 - 11:03 AM
#40
Posted 09 January 2013 - 11:12 AM
What I don't understand why everyone thinks the solutions to this type of issue is by arming the teachers. How about we take a easier solution? Have all the doors locked with a pass key entry on all of them except the front door where there will be a reception area. That is how my college is designed. The reason the traditions like these happen is due to the fact that anyone can walk into the building and never be questioned. While most businesses buildings are locked downed to unauthorized personal. I don't understand how this was over looked.
I thought the nutcase shot down the glass first when they wouldn't buzz him in?
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